God is the Father of us
all and so we are brothers and sisters. On the sacred occasion of Raksha
Bandhan, I regard all females of all ages and lands as our sisters and all males
as our brothers. Even our students and spouses today soar to the status of
brothers and sisters. Down the years of my experience, I have always observed men
and women as symbols of love, protection and service for each other,
transcending our narrow domestic walls such as caste, creed, colour, and, geographical
boundaries etc., barring a handful of isolated cases.
I firmly believe our sisters are endowed with
such divine powers that by the spell of their love, good will and prayers, men
gain super heights in life and perform great feats. On the other hand, as a gesture of reciprocity,
we, their brothers pledge to protect the dignity and honour of our sisters - so
indispensable for our balanced and harmonious life. Raksha Bandhan is a
celebration of the love and relationship of brothers and sisters and an
occasion to renew and reaffirm our trust and good will to each other.
Our history and legends
are full of records and stories, which testify that by mutual love and respect to
each other, men and women can perform miracles. That’s why the adage stands:
There is a woman behind the success of every man. Evidences of mythical
occurrences of Raksha Bandhan had been found in the Mahabharata. Draupadi tied
a strip of her silk sari on Krishna’s hand so as to protect him from bleeding out
of battlefield wounds. Krishna thereby declared Draupadi as his sister and
promised to be her protector. That was the start of this festival of ‘Raksha
Bandhan’.
According to some texts, Yama the God of
Death, and his sister Yamuna, observed the Rakhi Bandhan ritual. Yamuna had
tied a rakhi on Lord Yama’s wrist and blessed him with immortality. Yama was so
moved by the love he received that he declared that if any sister tied a rakhi
on her brother’s wrist, he would gain immortality and she would be protected by
him. It is believed that the Rakhi possesses some mystical powers that bring
about fortunes when it is tied with faith and devotion.
‘Raksha Bandhan’,
literally ‘a knot of protection’ is a rich practice triggers a surge of emotion
in me to celebrate the auspicious occasion. This humble write-up is my tribute
to the wonderful day, 7 August, 2017.
The celebration is embellished and enlivened
with colourful sacred threads on the wrists of brothers and sisters, besides music,
exchange of hugs, presenting gifts to each other, sharing sweets and delicacies
and other gestures of love and good will to each other. Sisters tie colourful sacred threads on the
brothers’ wrists with prayer and good will for their brothers’ safe, healthy
and prosperous life. And, brothers follow suit by pledging the protection,
safety, honour and dignity of the sisters. On this great day, I submit my
prayer and good will for the health, happiness, prosperity and dignified lives
of our sisters in all lands, and pledge to extend my humble hands in their
needs and services. On this auspicious occasion, I remember hosts of sisters,
whose selfless and compassionate love and good will ennobled me and made a
difference in my life. The sweet memories of the divine sisters’ love are today
more nourishing and more uplifting than ever before.
Among hundreds, here I
mention a few names whose love, support and services nourished my existence and
their loving memories still provides me strength and inspiration: Marry
Campbell, California, a stranger in whose kindness and gentility I felt
sublimated. Miss Jean Mc Neil, Leicester, England, every morning for two years reenergized
me with her sisterly love and affection. I still cherish the memory of the
love-laden dinner she had offered at her house at Tsebar, Bhutan. Ms. Tessa
Goldsmith, England, is no more, but her love still resides in me feeding my
soul. I remember Jechhen Langzom, a student of Class Six, who had carried a
bundle of mustard green taking several hours’ of arduous walk from Dungmin to
Tsebar to express her love and devotion to her teacher. The memory of the splendid
meal that was cooked and served by Cheten Zangmo, on my final departure from
Tsebar Primary School to Nangkor still exhilarates me. It was one of the finest
meals I have ever had, for it was an expression of profound love and devotion
of a student to a teacher. Besides, Madam Yanki Dem, Principal, Nangkor Higher
Secondary School in 1999, invited all the teachers of the school to her house on
an occasion, to serve dinner with her compassionate hands in profound love and
good will. The memory of the dinner still re-energizes me. I cannot forget Madam
Karma Choki (1997), who so generously prepared delicious snacks for all the
staff of the school for several months and served us as a gesture of her good
will and support to the school family in our needs.
I only wish and pray that we become worthy
brothers of such noble sisters. The Rakhi celebration reminds me of my dear
sister Tshering Pem, CHPC, who at her own initiative along with her husband
Ugyen Needup carried me in their own vehicle to the best surgeon in Thimphu, Dr.
Lotay, during my sickness in 2011.To me such sisters’ love is the direct touch
of God. I remember how engineer Madam Karma Palden and Principal Madam Deki
Choden extended their kind hands and rehabilitated me and my family in 2008 at
Chukha, when we were devastated at the loss our house and a truck of luggage. Instances
such as these are plenty when n I received loving support and services of our
sisters. The stories may make a voluminous book. The long list of such sisters includes
Madam Kencho Lham, Madam Rita Chhetri, Madam Deki Peldon, Madam Dawa Pem, Madam
Karma Wangmo, Madam Nima Yangzom, Madam Dawa Choden, Champa Keshi, Sumitra
Barman, Purnima Paul, Karma Yangden, Sabina Nepal, Dechen Choki, and many more.
I wish I could write to all of them on this auspicious occasion of Raksha
Bandhan. I am so much grateful to them. I remember the unfathomable love of our
dear students, whose faces today shine before my eyes.
May the spirit of the
celebration of Raksha Bandhan strengthen the bond of our love and kinship
between brothers and sisters, beyond man-made narrow domestic walls!
Santosh Chowdhury
Ex-teacher
Royal Govt. Of Bhutan
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